What I'm saying is: you attack OP for remembering the one false accusation among thousands of true ones. And this is exactly what false accusations do, people will remember the few false ones more than the abundant true ones hurting everyone who is already hurt. Just look how one - one single - discredited study from some 50 years ago started the whole "vaccines causes autism" falsehood that continue to this day, even though it has been disproven multiple times.
OP hasn't done "a lot of mental effort", this is the simple reality that follows "credible" lies.
Crystal should probably apologise more to the millions of women for which she has poisoned water for the coming 100 years, rather than the dozen men she destroyed the life for during 18 years.

This is exactly the problem with false accusations...

Then you know what's coming down the line

Good catch